You went in about the sweats, the 3am waking and the crying you could not explain. You came out with a prescription for an antidepressant. If that sounds familiar, this page is for you, and so is the question of what that prescription was for.
SSRIs and other antidepressants for menopause
What these medicines are, what NICE and the Pakistan Menopause Society say about them for menopause symptoms, and how to ask what a prescription is for.
The words and the guidance
- English
- Antidepressants
- Also searched as
- SNRIs, antidepressants for hot flushes, antidepressants for hot flashes
- Urdu
- ڈپریشن کی دوا
- Roman Urdu
- depression ki dawa
- NICE NG23 says: "Do not routinely offer selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) or clonidine as first-line treatment for vasomotor symptoms alone." (recommendation 1.5.4) Vasomotor symptoms means hot flushes and night sweats.
- For low mood that comes with the menopause, NICE NG23 says: "Consider HRT to alleviate depressive symptoms (not meeting the criteria for a diagnosis of depression) with onset around the same time as other symptoms associated with menopause." (1.5.21)
- The Pakistan Menopause Society's 2026 recommendations list SSRIs and SNRIs among the non-hormonal medicines that may be used when HRT is not suitable or a woman declines it, and keep antidepressants for moderate to severe mood disorders after a specialist has assessed her (summary; section 7.2).
- The British Menopause Society notes that these medicines are often used outside their licence when given for menopause symptoms, and that some interact with tamoxifen.
What it is
SSRIs, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, and SNRIs, serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors, are two closely related families of antidepressants. The British Menopause Society notes that some also help anxiety.
They also turn up in menopause care, for two different reasons. Some are used as a non-hormonal treatment for hot flushes and night sweats. And some women in midlife are given one for low mood or anxiety that started around the same time as their other menopause symptoms.
Those are two different jobs. Knowing which one your prescription is doing is the first question to ask.
What the guidance lists
The Pakistan Menopause Society's table of non-hormonal treatments for hot flushes and night sweats (Table 11) lists two SSRIs, paroxetine and escitalopram, and two SNRIs, venlafaxine and desvenlafaxine.
The British Menopause Society's guide for clinicians lists the same family, with some cautions. These medicines are often used outside their licence when the reason is menopause symptoms. Side effects across the SSRIs include nausea, dizziness, a short-term rise in anxiety at the start, and sexual side effects. Paroxetine can make tamoxifen, a breast cancer medicine, less effective, and the BMS says fluoxetine should be avoided with it too. It names venlafaxine as possibly the safest choice for women on tamoxifen.
The European Menopause and Andropause Society (EMAS) adds a note on blood fats: sertraline and paroxetine can raise triglycerides, and venlafaxine may raise blood fat levels too.
What the guidelines say about treatment
NICE NG23 is clear on hot flushes: "Do not routinely offer selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) or clonidine as first-line treatment for vasomotor symptoms alone." (1.5.4) The guideline's first recommendation for hot flushes is to offer HRT (1.5.1).
On mood, NG23 separates two situations. For low mood that does not amount to a diagnosis of depression and began around the same time as other menopause symptoms, it says to consider HRT (1.5.21) and menopause-specific CBT (1.5.22). For a woman who has, or may have, depression, it asks doctors to follow the menopause guideline and the depression guideline together (1.5.23).
The Pakistan Menopause Society's recommendations point the same way. They list SSRIs and SNRIs for when HRT is not suitable or a woman declines it, and keep antidepressants for moderate to severe mood disorders after a specialist has assessed her (7.2). For women who have had breast cancer, they say an SNRI such as venlafaxine may be considered for flushes (7.1.2).
Why this matters here
An audit of 250 women aged 45 to 55 treated for depression at Benazir Bhutto Hospital in Rawalpindi, presented at a conference in 2024, found that 78% had significant perimenopausal symptoms that had been missed, and that 82% were being treated with antidepressants (Gul, 2024). EMAS gives the wider picture: depressive symptoms affect 45 to 68% of women in perimenopause, against 28 to 31% in the years before it.
None of that means an antidepressant is the wrong medicine for you. It may be exactly right, especially if you have depression. It does mean that is this for my mood or for my menopause? is a fair question, and one you are allowed to ask.
Available in Pakistan?
Yes. The Pakistan Menopause Society's 2026 table of non-hormonal treatments for hot flushes and night sweats (Table 11) lists two SSRIs, paroxetine and escitalopram, and two SNRIs, venlafaxine and desvenlafaxine, each with brands sold locally.
When to see a doctor
If you are on an antidepressant and think perimenopause may be part of the picture, book an appointment to talk it through. Bring a record of your symptoms; the symptom score is one way.
Talk to whoever prescribed your antidepressant before changing anything. The PMS table notes that these medicines are reduced gradually when stopped.
The PMS recommendations list severe depression and a risk of self-harm among the things a doctor should investigate or refer on (Table 4).
Questions to ask your doctor
- Is this medicine for my mood, or for my hot flushes?
- Could my symptoms be perimenopause, and have we talked about HRT for them?
- If HRT is not right for me, why is this the option you are suggesting?
- I take tamoxifen. Does that change which of these medicines would suit me?
- If I want to come off it one day, how would we do that safely?
- I have high cholesterol. Could this medicine affect it?
Faith and family
In many families, depression ki dawa carries a weight that a blood pressure tablet does not. Some women refuse it for fear of what people will say. Others take it quietly and never mention it to anyone. Both are understandable.
Some women are told, or tell themselves, that low mood means their faith has grown weak. It is a heavy thing to carry and a hard one to say out loud. If faith questions are part of what is weighing on you, a scholar you trust can be part of the conversation. The medicine itself is a conversation for your doctor.
Track it
- Roshara's symptom score rates 27 symptoms in a few minutes, with no account. The total is something to take to your appointment. Take the symptom score
- Where am I? names the stage you might be in. Six questions. Take Where am I?
- Log it day by day in the tracker, with what came just before. It needs a free account. Open the tracker
Common questions
- Should I stop my antidepressant if I think my symptoms are perimenopause?
- Talk to whoever prescribed it before changing anything. The Pakistan Menopause Society's table notes that paroxetine and venlafaxine are reduced gradually when stopped (Table 11). (Source: Pakistan Menopause Society, Good Clinical Practice Recommendations for Menopause Care in Pakistan (JSOGP 16(2), 28 April 2026))
- What if I have actually been diagnosed with depression?
- Then both apply. NICE NG23 asks doctors to follow the menopause guideline alongside NICE's guideline on depression in adults (1.5.23). Depression is a real diagnosis, and its treatment matters. (Source: NICE NG23, Menopause: identification and management (last updated 15 April 2026))
- I already take sertraline. Will it help my flushes?
- Perhaps not. The Menopause Society, in the US, found only a small trend with sertraline and fluoxetine in trials, one that could have been chance, so it does not recommend either for hot flushes. Do not stop it on your own; ask whether your flushes need their own treatment. (Source: The Menopause Society (then The North American Menopause Society), The 2023 nonhormone therapy position statement, Menopause 2023;30(6):573-590)
Sources
- NICE NG23, Menopause: identification and management (last updated 15 April 2026)Section: 1.5.1 to 1.5.4, Vasomotor symptoms; 1.5.21 to 1.5.23, Depressive symptoms · Opened 1 October 2026© NICE 2026 Menopause: identification and management. Available from www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng23 All rights reserved. Subject to Notice of rights. NICE guidance is prepared for the National Health Service in England. All NICE guidance is subject to regular review and may be updated or withdrawn. NICE accepts no responsibility for the use of its content in this product/publication.
- Pakistan Menopause Society, Good Clinical Practice Recommendations for Menopause Care in Pakistan (JSOGP 16(2), 28 April 2026)Section: Summary; Table 4; 7.1.2; 7.2; Table 11 · Opened 1 October 2026
- British Menopause Society, Tool for Clinicians: Prescribable alternatives to HRT (reviewed March 2026)Section: Introduction; SSRIs; SNRIs · Opened 1 October 2026
- Gul N. Identifying perimenopausal symptoms in women diagnosed with depression: a focused audit at a tertiary care hospital. BJPsych Open 2024;10(S1):S234 (conference abstract)Section: Results · Opened 1 October 2026
- The Menopause Society (then The North American Menopause Society), The 2023 nonhormone therapy position statement, Menopause 2023;30(6):573-590Section: Prescription therapies: SSRIs and SNRIs · Opened 15 October 2026
- European Menopause and Andropause Society, Menopause Essentials 2026: Depression (July 2026)Section: Introduction · Opened 15 October 2026
- European Menopause and Andropause Society, Menopause Essentials 2026: Cholesterol and menopause treatments (July 2026)Section: Non-hormonal therapies (for vasomotor symptoms) and lipids · Opened 15 October 2026