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Bone health

Bone loss speeds up in the years after menopause, and you cannot feel it happening. What NICE, the NHS and the Pakistan Menopause Society say, and why vitamin D comes up so often for women in Pakistan.

Nobody feels their bones thinning. There is no ache to warn you and no symptom to track, which is why bone health belongs in the conversation before a fall makes the point for you.

The words and the guidance

English
Bone health
Also searched as
bone density, bone loss
Urdu
ہڈیوں کی مضبوطی
Roman Urdu
haddiyon ki mazbooti

What women actually say

  • ہڈیاں کمزور ہو گئی ہیں (haddiyan kamzor ho gayi hain)My bones have gone weak. The everyday way women describe bone loss, and the same picture the official leaflets use for osteoporosis.
  • NICE NG23, the menopause guideline doctors in England follow, recommends: "Give advice on bone health to people experiencing menopause and discuss bone health with them at review appointments" (1.2.4).
  • NICE NG23 also asks doctors to: "Explain to people experiencing menopause the importance of maintaining muscle mass and strength through physical activity." (1.2.5)
  • The NHS website says women lose bone more quickly for a number of years after the menopause, when the ovaries almost stop making estrogen, which helps protect the bones.
  • The Pakistan Menopause Society's 2026 recommendations name endemic vitamin D deficiency and a high burden of osteoporosis among the key challenges for menopause care in Pakistan (section 4.1).

What it is

The NHS website says women lose bone more quickly for a number of years after the menopause, as the ovaries almost stop making estrogen, which protects the bones. The Pakistan Menopause Society's recommendations describe the first five or six years after the final period as a time of accelerated bone loss (1.2.7.1). Let it go far enough and it becomes osteoporosis: bones weak enough to break easily.

Why it happens

The NHS ties the faster loss to falling estrogen. The Pakistan Menopause Society adds a caution: not every midlife health problem is down to estrogen, and age, lifestyle and other conditions play their part (Table 1).

For women in Pakistan the Pakistan Menopause Society lists three things that stack up: an earlier average age of menopause, endemic vitamin D deficiency with a high burden of osteoporosis, and limited physical exercise (section 4.1). An earlier menopause means more years after it. Its recommendations name indoor lifestyle and purdah as the reasons vitamin D matters so much in Pakistan, and, as their advice for women there, ask that vitamin D levels be checked regularly where feasible (Table 5).

The NHS website lists the same pattern from the other side. Among the groups at greater risk of not getting enough vitamin D, it names people who are not often outdoors, people who usually cover most of their skin when outside, and people with darker skin, including those of south Asian origin. Plenty of women reading this may tick all three.

What the guidance lists

  • Food. The NHS website lists dairy, green leafy vegetables such as okra, broccoli and cabbage, soya beans, tofu, nuts, fortified flour and fish eaten with the bones among good sources of calcium. One detail for a Pakistani kitchen: it says spinach contains calcium but also oxalate, which reduces absorption, so palak is not a good source of calcium. For amounts, see the NHS page linked below and vitamin D and calcium; for tea, see chai and caffeine.
  • Movement. The Pakistan Menopause Society calls weight-bearing exercise, such as walking and low-impact aerobics, essential for bone health, particularly given the high osteoporosis burden, and lists strength training alongside it (Table 6).
  • Smoking. The same recommendations list stopping cigarettes, naswar and shisha as improving bone density (Table 7). See smoking, naswar and shisha.

What the guidelines say about treatment

NICE NG23 sets out what HRT does for bones in its table of benefits and risks: "Fragility fracture risk is decreased while taking HRT". The same table says the benefit holds during treatment and fades once it stops. The Pakistan Menopause Society lists maintaining bone health among the main reasons for MHT, its word for HRT (5.1).

That does not make HRT a bone treatment for everyone. Whether it suits you depends on your history, and your doctor weighs that with you. There are also non-hormonal medicines for osteoporosis, covered under osteoporosis.

When to see a doctor

Ask about your bones at any menopause appointment. NICE NG23 asks doctors to give that advice and to come back to it at reviews.

The Pakistan Menopause Society asks doctors to assess fracture risk and consider a DXA bone density scan, where one is available, for women at higher risk: after a fragility fracture, with early menopause or premature ovarian insufficiency, after long courses of steroids, with repeated falls or with marked height loss (Table 4). If any of those fits you, say so.

A bone that breaks in a minor fall, or noticeable loss of height, is worth raising soon rather than at the next routine visit.

Questions to ask your doctor

  1. Given my age at menopause and my family history, is my fracture risk worth assessing?
  2. Is a bone density scan (DXA) right for me, and is one available near here?
  3. Should my vitamin D level be checked?
  4. If HRT is on the table, what would it mean for my bones?

Faith and family

Covering is a choice of faith, and nothing here asks you to change it. The Pakistan Menopause Society names purdah as one reason vitamin D matters in Pakistan, and its advice there is to have levels checked where feasible. Raising it with your doctor is a practical question, not a religious one.

The older women in your family are part of this too. A mother or aunt with a stooped back, or a hip that broke after a fall, is family history worth mentioning at your appointment.

Track it

  • Roshara's symptom score rates 27 symptoms in a few minutes, with no account. The total is something to take to your appointment. Take the symptom score
  • Where am I? names the stage you might be in. Six questions. Take Where am I?
  • Log it day by day in the tracker, with what came just before. It needs a free account. Open the tracker

Common questions

Can I feel bone loss happening?
No. The NHS website lists weakening bones, which can lead to osteoporosis, among the changes menopause can bring. It is something a doctor assesses, not something you feel. (Source: NHS website, Symptoms of menopause and perimenopause (reviewed 19 May 2026))
How much calcium and vitamin D do I need?
The NHS website gives the amounts for adults on its Food for healthy bones page, and says there are no specific calcium or vitamin D recommendations for the menopause. Your doctor can tell you whether you need a supplement. (Source: NHS website, Food for healthy bones (reviewed 25 April 2024))
Does wearing hijab or covering affect vitamin D?
The NHS website lists people who usually cover most of their skin outdoors, people who are not often outdoors and people with darker skin, including those of south Asian origin, among the groups at greater risk of not getting enough vitamin D, and advises them to take a vitamin D supplement all year round (the amount is on its page). The Pakistan Menopause Society names indoor lifestyle and purdah as reasons vitamin D matters in Pakistan. (Source: NHS website, Food for healthy bones (reviewed 25 April 2024))

Sources

  1. NICE NG23, Menopause: identification and management (last updated 15 April 2026)Section: 1.2.4 to 1.2.5; 1.6, Table 1 (osteoporosis) · Opened 1 October 2026© NICE 2026 Menopause: identification and management. Available from www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng23 All rights reserved. Subject to Notice of rights. NICE guidance is prepared for the National Health Service in England. All NICE guidance is subject to regular review and may be updated or withdrawn. NICE accepts no responsibility for the use of its content in this product/publication.
  2. NHS website, Food for healthy bones (reviewed 25 April 2024)Section: Calcium; Vitamin D; At-risk groups; Menopause · Opened 1 October 2026
  3. NHS website, Symptoms of menopause and perimenopause (reviewed 19 May 2026)Section: Other symptoms of menopause and perimenopause · Opened 1 October 2026
  4. Pakistan Menopause Society, Good Clinical Practice Recommendations for Menopause Care in Pakistan (JSOGP 16(2), 28 April 2026)Section: 1.2.7.1; Table 4 bone and muscle health; 4.1; Tables 5, 6 and 7; 5.1 · Opened 1 October 2026